Dear Daddy: I feel pressured by my boyfriend to stop having oral sex.
I don’t want to do this, I never wanted to, and never will. It makes me feel
My boyfriend knows this but he keeps teasing me.
I am 22 years old and he is 24 years old. We have been together for a year.
This is something we do not agree on. I am brave and I have tried everything he has suggested and I have never pressured him to do whatever I want.
I have even suggested that he wears a flavored condom as a compromise.
He refused, saying that he would not feel anything, so it would not be of much use.
It makes me sad
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Daddy says: Don’t feel pressured to do something against your will.
Everyone has different sexual preferences and some people don’t get involved.
Very few people like to do anything sexual.
Every issue gets a personal answer, usually within 24 hours on weekdays.
Work with what you both like and have sex where you both like what you are doing.
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