I’m a Sex Character – Six Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life and Tips on How to Organize Your Kinky Set for Maximum Pleasure

IF your relationship is dustier than you’d like, now is the perfect time to bring it back to shine.

Sexper Alix Fox shares her tips on how to turn your love life into action

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Brighten up your sex life with advice from sex worker Alix Fox1 credit

REFRESH YOUR KINKY SET

IF you’re clinging to an old sex toy that didn’t turn you on, or still wearing those handcuffs that shackle you with bad memories of your ex, Alix thinks it’s time to get rid of it.

She says, “Were they the wrong shape? Too loud? Not powerful enough?

“Keep that in mind to help you choose a replacement that will deliver Big O’s rather than a big disappointment.”

Also check the expiration date of the products.

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Alix says: “Older condoms are more likely to break, and the chemicals in some used lube can cause itching, burning, allergies, or even a nasty infection.

“Throw away anything that has changed color, texture, or smell.”

When discarding sex toys, check to see if your local authority has a Waste Electrical and Electronic Equipment (WEEE) scheme through RecycleNow.com.

If you’re stocking up, Gaia’s sex toy sellers make the world’s first cornstarch-based biodegradable plastic toys starting at £10 at PlayfulPromises.com.

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DISCOVER YOUR THOUGHTS

Try To Work Out Any Minor Disagreements With Your Partner So They Don'T Ruin A Potentially Great Date.

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Try to work out any minor disagreements with your partner so they don’t ruin a potentially great date.1 credit

“Just as one black sock can turn all white clothes into dirty gray, one dark thought about your partner can easily ruin an intimate night,” Alix says.

“If there is something minor but annoying about your lover, talk calmly and agree on a plan together to sort it out, and then draw a line under it.”

Alix says it’s also easy to cling to petty grudges and grudges, especially when you’re tired. She says: “It would be a shame to let those emotional socks go without having to color what could have been a great date.

“To keep irritation from spinning around in your head like a dryer, ask yourself: “Will I still be so upset about this tomorrow, or will I be more upset if I let it ruin this evening?”

“Try to imagine how you mentally put the “sock” in the laundry basket and close the lid.”

DEEP CLEAN YOUR DIARY

“Couples complain that they don’t have enough time to socialize and that they are too tired to act indecently,” explains Alix. “Keep a journal of what you do during the day to identify ‘obstacles’ and ‘opportunities’.

“Barriers are things that get in the way of sexual play – some of them can be removed or removed.

“Is that half an hour spent mindlessly scrolling through social media really better than cuddling with your partner? If both of you have taken on housework, it may help you feel less tired and more in the mood for sex.

“Opportunities are areas where you could add more fun and intimacy. If the kids have sports practice, turn this time into a chance for a regular daytime date.

“Or try giving each other a massage while watching an episode of your favorite show this week.”

STOP DUST DUST

Keep Your Love Fresh So Things Don'T Get Rusty Or Dusty.

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Keep your love fresh so things don’t get rusty or dusty.1 credit

Having sex the same way every time can soon feel bland and monotonous for both partners.

Alix thinks spring is the perfect time to freshen up.

She says: “Challenge yourself to change at least one little thing every time you make love over the next few weeks. If you maintain the same posture, you can see what it’s like to be dressed or unclothed, blindfolded, in another room, or in silence with an open window.

“To keep your love life fresh, it doesn’t always require frightening and extreme adventures. Sometimes minor shifts are enough to keep things from getting rusty and dusty.”

IMPROVE YOUR SEX SPACE

Minimal Changes To Your Interior Can Boost Your Libido.

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Minimal changes to your interior can boost your libido.1 credit

Making small changes to your bedroom decor can do wonders for your libido.

Alix says: “Install dimmable color-changing light bulbs to quickly change the atmosphere in your bedroom from sunny to sultry. Flattering low lighting can help you feel more confident in your body, and if you don’t see crumbs on the carpet or cobwebs in the corners, you’re less likely to be distracted.

“If working from home does not allow you to do things in the bedroom, try covering the table with a sheet.

“Setting an alarm for “close shop” at the end of each day can help you mentally shift your mindset from professional mode to non-work mode—and have fun.”

And if you don’t have a place to store sexy lingerie and toys, Alix has a handy tip.

She advises: “Place toys in hanging plastic pockets in your wardrobe, covered with a suit on top to hide them from prying eyes.”

Dirt in microdates

Micro-Dating Can Do More For Your Relationship Than You Might Think.

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Micro-dating can do more for your relationship than you might think.1 credit

“MICRO DATES are mini-moments of romance that can spice up a relationship more than you can imagine,” Alix explains.

“Think of them as courting confetti you can sprinkle over your days to keep the passion going wherever you are. Dance to “your song” in your living room. Meet your partner at the bus stop and walk home together for the last leg of the journey or take a shower together.”

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Alix advises that intimacy planning is also key. She says: “Planning makes it a priority and something to look forward to rather than an afterthought you try to cram in.

“Of course, no one should feel compelled to have sex when “Saucy Sunday” rolls around if they don’t want to, but make sure that this agreed time is free to dedicate it to everyone’s pleasure.

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